So I havent been on in a while because it has all been kicking off.

I started seeing someone, ironically I met him on the dating site....hes really nice, just a genuine guy.

So ofcourse R didnt take this fact well.

To cut a long story short, on Saturday he punched me in the mouth coz I was going on a date with this new guy who we will call G.

Then on Tuesday, R barged into my room really early and started shouting at me to get up. He then leaned over me on the bed and I put my hand up to protect my face and he grabbed it and twisted my arm back.

We sat down and tried to sort things out, but at 12noon we were having a row about G and R called me slut. So on impulse I slapped him, he then stood up and punched me on the shoulder and across the forehead.

I ran upstairs but he followed and leaned over me, pushing his head into my cheek. He was shouting and screaming at me. Once he had left the room I phoned the police.

I had been considering it for months but was holding off because I didnt want social services involved. But enough is enough. I just had to have him out of my house.

So the police came round twice and told him to leave but he kept coming back.

At 2pm I phoned again to say he was back, and by 5.30 still no police came, even though I phoned another two times.

The whole time he was outside begging to be let back in and threatening to kick the door down.

At 5.30 he asked for money so when i opened the window to give him it, he climbed in.

I began dialing the poilce on the landline but he pulled the wire out of the wall. Then he smashed a glass. I thought he was going to attack me with it so I dialled 999 on my mobile but he tried to grab it off me.

I got away and ran upstairs and dialled again.

I ended up locking myself in the car with the baby, and the police didnt arrive until 6pm.

They have charged him for burgalry, criminal damage and he has been cautioned for harrassment.

Today I had to go and ask the Judge for a Non-Molestation and Occupancy Order to keep him away.

Its just a mess.:(